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Reunion

15 November 2009

It was a long time coming. But I was pretty glad we all pulled it off.

You see, last November 7-8, I finally got to meet in person the familiar faces of my classmates in 1R/S/S1/S2, my first year college class. There was Irish, Ate Mahani, Novie, Chona, Joycee, "Brother" Jose, Mark, Joel, and Jade, our honorary member. The gathering was in Dumoy Garden Resort and was supposed to have been a send-off party for Ate Mahani (who was bound for the US to become Mrs. Lindquist, the Malaysian/Filipino/American wife of Kuya Bruce).

Looking back, I guess the ball started rolling when I posted and tagged everyone on a Facebook note, raising the idea for a class reunion later this year. Imagine my relief when I found out that everyone was okay with that proposal (I was actually bracing myself for a thousand excuses from my former classmates. E.G. "busy", "kapuy", "no wawartz", "out-of-town" etc.).

Then, someone (I think it was Novie or Chona? Can't remember.) suggested we do it on the November 7th before Ate Mahani left for the country. So that's what we did.

What happened next was a showcase of brilliant planning. Okay, not quite, but I was still amazed at how everything went well despite some lapses in coordination. A lot of us promised to go but (as is often the case) only a handful came up. Some, like Emir, Nat-nat, Cleo, and Chuckie, had familial obligations to attend to and so weren't available. Others like Go and Donna were not in Davao City to begin with. Still others like Karlo and Jarrold were busy with work. But that was all right; the rule was to simply enjoy the presence of those who were actually around (and if we had been a bigger group, accommodating everyone in the small, reserved room would have been a more complicated problem).

In addition, the event was also not safe from late changes in plans. Ate Mah and the girls had to hop from one resort to another, looking for vacant accommodations. As for the food, with regard to Pinoy standards during outings, we were all going on a diet; there were no pots or any extravagant catering, just last-minute purchases from the local karinderya, some junk foods bought from the grocery, and relief goods brought by those who came later in the evening.

As to what happened during the entire overnight stay in Dumoy, we were basically just trying to catch up with each other's lives and reminiscing the good ol' days. Beforehand, Chona had suggested that I do a program to keep things in order but it was unnecessary in the end (Yes, Chona, I'll still do a program for the actual reunion. No problem on that but I do need help from someone with HR experience. Hehe.).

That night, one of the things I realized was how special these people were to me. These were the people who had been with me during that special first year in college and, though we had been apart for quite some time now, those bonds formed then can never go away.

I also realized how blessed I was to meet such a diverse cast of people, each from a different background. All night, I was regaled with a lot of stories: "Bro" and his exorcisms, his formation in the rural countryside, and the religious life. Joel and his trips to Cotabato, Red Cross kidnappings, and motherhood counseling with Ate Mahani. Mark and his exploits in DTI. Irish and her NGO experience with the natives of Malita. Novie and her stories about her mother, Malita, and the bananas of Santo Tomas. Chona and the HR work life of PWC. Joycee and her insistent interrogations with some key males in the group. Ate Mahani and her plans for the US. Jade and her beauty secrets and her prized glittering headband.

All in all, it was a good night, a night I thoroughly enjoyed. Before we all bade goodbye to each other one more time, we agreed that the actual reunion was to push through this December. Let's see what happens then (I hope more of us can come).

Even now, I'm already excited. Cheers to 1R/S/S1/S2!

Still Alive

06 November 2009

Haaay. Finally, the hiatus has come to an end. Now, it's time to explain myself.

Kuya Kim, a cousin of mine, mentioned to me earlier tonight that he found out this blog several weeks earlier (To digress, we were attending the first birthday party of Kyrstine, the adorable little angel of another cousin of mine, Kuya Aji, and his wife, Ate Gladys). That brief mention reminded me that I had an online life to attend to and I had a blog that needed fresh content.

For those who are wondering what has happened to me since September, here's the news. First, I got busy, or more specifically, I finally landed a job after four months of soul searching and job hunting. I'm now a sleep-deprived, slightly harried employee for a commercial bank somewhere in the outskirts of Lanang. That alone explains why I haven't been online for so long and why my writing career - if ever there was one - has halted to a stop. Simply put, I don't have the time nowadays, nor the energy, to use on more leisurely and lofty pursuits.

I am certain however that somewhere in the near future, I can strike a balance between work and play. But right now, I'm so busy absorbing the aspects of my work, I've become a model workaholic: early to work, no time to play, that's my life now, what more can I say?

What about my plan for pursuing further studies? Well, that has been put on hold too. Now is simply not the time to pursue those things especially when someone's a probationary. But I am still interested and I intend to go back to school real soon.

What about networking? For that, I'm taking it real slow. I've been learning some new stuff every now and then and I have some plans which I hope I can pull off later this month.

In the end, I think the only casualties of my current busy status quo are the social networking sites and online tools of my not-too-distant past. I miss checking Facebook and Plurk every day. I also miss sifting through the hundreds of emails, newsletters, and spam mail in my four email accounts. I miss reading interesting stuff in the web.

Haay. Still, I can't go back to where I was then. My vacation's over. I just hope I can still update this blog every now and then.

Now, it's time to go. My brother can't wait to use the computer and I can already smell blood if I don't get off my seat this instant.

Text Messages 12

05 October 2009

"You won't fully enjoy a swing unless you raise your feet from the ground. You won't fully enjoy a boat ride unless you remove the rope's knot from the river bank. Your dog won't fully enjoy his or her dog life unless you remove the chain on his or her neck. Never ever limit yourself when it comes to happiness, learn how to let go and move on. Life is beautiful. Live it! Like you mean it..."
Argyl Serrano, October 7, 2009

A lecturer explaining stress management to the audience, raised a glass of water and asked, "How heavy is this glass of water?" Answers called out ranged from 20 grams to 500 grams. The lecturer replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long you try to hold it. If you carry your burdens all the time, sooner or later, the burden becomes increasingly heavy. You won't be able to carry on." Learn to forgive and forget and leave it all to God.
Argyl Serrano, October 7, 2009

Beat this logic:
The boyfriend and girlfriend were blaming each other for the unwanted pregnancy of the girl.
BF: You must take care of the baby. He'll be coming out from you so that's yours!
After a long moment of silence...
GF: So, if you put a coin into a vending machine and a coke comes out, does the coke belong to you or to the machine?
100% logical.
Argyl Serrano, October 7, 2009

A philosophy professor asked his students just one question for their final exam. The question was, "How are you going to make me believe that this chair in front of you is invisible?"
It took all of the students one hour to finish writing the answer except for one lazy student who only took 3 seconds. After that day, the results were posted. The lazy student got the highest score. Know what his answer is?
"What chair?"
Lessons don't complicate simple things in life.
Argyl Serrano, October 7, 2009

"A heart made of ice doesn't need someone who has flame throwers to melt the ice away but someone who patiently waits until the ice melts by itself."
Argyl Serrano, October 6, 2009

Blessings do come as a surprise and how much we receive depends on how much our hearts can believe. May the Lord bless you beyond expectations.
Argyl Serrano, October 6, 2009

Making the first move to patch things up shouldn't always come from the one who made the mistake. Sometimes, it can come from the one who understands.
Argyl Serrano, October 6, 2009

An arrow can be shot only by pulling it backward so when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it's going to launch you into something great.
Argyl Serrano, October 6, 2009

Sometimes, your existence gives hope to a person. Sometimes, your smile maybe a pearl for someone. Your presence might be the desire of the one who loves you dearly. So value yourself! Exist for a reason.
Rogelyn Donor, October 5, 2009

Teacher talking to student
Teacher: What do you think is the greatest problem facing the youth now?
Student: Alak po.
Teacher: (Impressed) Bakit mo nasabi yan?
Student: Mahal kasi eh! Bad trip!
Edwin Gutierrez, October 5, 2009

Drama sa Radyo:
"Ayaw ko ug guniti, Edwardo..buhi-i akung li-og. Gubot na akong buhok kay sige na ta'g bugno." "Tug-an sa tinood Lorena kay gianam-anam na tika'g luok." "Husto na Edwardo! Kita na ko ug kutsilyo sa lamesa. Akoa kining kuhaon ug akung iduslak kanimo. Ani-a na...nakuha na nako..giduslak na tika! Tugsh..." "Aahhh...gidunggab ko nimo sa tiyan. Nagkadugo na ko ug kamatyunon nako. Ani-a na patay nako...ugh."
Uy. With feelings kaayo iya pagbasa. Hehe.
Edwin Gutierrez, October 5, 2009

Pare 1: Pre, pautanga ko 5 kilo bugas ug 3 tinapa. Bayaran lang nako pag abot ni misis gikan US.
Pare 2: Sige pre, nus-a diay uli si mare?
Pare 1: Naga-apply pa pre! Iampo pre na makalarga na!
Edwin Gutierrez, October 4, 2009

"Worries are like birds; let them fly over you. But do not let them build a nest on your head. Life is a precious gift. Keep it worry free."
Mark Salazar, September 29, 2009

A clay pot containing milk will be valued higher than a golden pot containing poison. Our inner values make us a lot more valuable than our outer look and glamor.
Mary Ann Andicoy, September 26, 2009

It's your heart that makes you the best. You are wonderful according to what you are, not according to what you have. Keep that heart shining.
Mary Ann Andicoy, September 25, 2009

The thing about people who mean everything they say - they think everyone else does too - The Kite Runner
Shiela Mandaguay, September 25, 2009

Attitudes of smart employees:
Time conscious - Oras lay bantayan.
Workaholic - Dili makatrabaho kung dili maka-inom.
Service-oriented - Dili kalakaw kung walay service.
Hardworking - Lisod patrabahuon.
A keen eye for details - Himantayon.
Ate Bating / Edwin Gutierrez, October 25, 2009

The strong became weak. The genius became stupid. The speechless became talkative. The conservative became flirty. And it happened because of one thing: "Hubog."
Edwin Gutierrez, September 24, 2009

Effective way in courting:
Sabi ng boy kay girl: "Unsa man? Pili lang jud sa duwa: Sugton ko nimo? Or Uyab nata?" - kinsa gud di malisang ana?
Edwin Gutierrez, September 20, 2009

Juan: Pre, naa bay penguin diri sa Davao?
Pedro: Wa tawon, pre.
Juan: Nah, mao na ni Ron. Madre gud diay tong akong naligsan!
Edwin Gutierrez, September 19, 2009

Excuse Me?

25 September 2009

Sometimes, it is so tempting to be a full-fledged anarchist.

Yesterday, I visited the BIR Regional Office in Davao to get my TIN card. This was again a necessary step in completing my pre-employment requirements since I needed another valid ID other than my passport.

When I inquired the (slightly annoyed) man at the front desk about what to do, he said to me that my TIN was registered in Taguig/Pateros by my previous company. So I had to fill up BIR Form 1905 to change the RDO to that of Davao City's. I was also asked to fax it to the office in Taguig City (Curiously, the BIR Davao Office doesn't offer any fax services).

After completing the form, I again asked the front desk what I should do next. And his answer just blew me away.

He told me that I should go back to Taguig/Pateros and verify my TIN "in person" in the Taguig office before I can apply for a TIN card. After he said that, I stared at him for several seconds but he didn't give me any other option.

I was flabbergasted and furious. The man was telling me to spend thousands of pesos for a plane trip to Manila just to get a stupid card.I immediately walked out of the office before I had the chance to do something I would later regret.

Later, Papa comforted me by saying that I wasn't alone. He also had the same problems with the BIR. Most of the time, people in that government institution can be very rude, arrogant, or very un-accommodating because they know they are needed. In other words, good customer relations isn't really important in the job when you know people will still come to you no matter how bad you treat them.

Papa told me to go to SSS instead to apply for an ID card (something that I should've done a long time ago) and, lo and behold, the staff in SSS were more humane in their treatment. Papa explained to me then that the SSS had more reasons to take care of their customers since the company was reliant on people paying their premiums regularly and on time. I just wish BIR also had more reasons to take care of its taxpayers.

Still, my problem hasn't been solved. My SSS ID won't be mailed to me until after 4-6 months. I still need a valid ID by next week. Gosh.

Medical

23 September 2009

I don't like medical examinations. There's a certain amount of grossness associated with this bizarre initiation into the professional world, a grossness which leaves me squeamish and uncomfortable.

Take for instance urinalysis and fecalysis, where one is supposed to present his waste material as love offerings to the lab technicians. I don't know about you but nobody has ever explained to me the significance of those tests, which is a drag because, then, I have to do my own research in the internet.

The urinalysis is, you guess it, a test to analyze the content of your urine. This is to provide a general overview of one's health by measuring the amounts of certain substances present in your urine. Abnormal quantities can often be symptoms of certain diseases such as diabetes etc.

Fecalysis is another test to measure the condition of one's digestive tract in general. Again, abnormal quantities such as excess sugar, or the presence of blood, mucus, parasites can point to certain anomalies. I do humbly suggest however that hospitals also include the provision of antihelminthic drugs because, well, it follows (once the test picks up certain worms in your gut, you're bound to buy medicines for that, right?).

Actually, the only thing I hate about these tests is the part where I have to collect samples. That makes me go "Ewww!" but the self-humiliation doesn't stop there. I've done each test twice already (last year and this year) and every time I give my samples to the lab, there is always a pretty nurse waiting to receive them. And she is armed with two questions that can make any self-respecting gentleman lower his head in embarrassment: the questions "Ihi nimo ni?" and "Tae nimo ni?" (which is the Bisaya version of the more crude expression, "Is this your shit?").

However, don't get me wrong.I do understand the rationale behind this ceremony of tests, which is to screen potential employees from any underlying health problems. But understanding the reasons why doesn't often lead to greater acceptance (just like understanding death more doesn't mean one would accept it eventually). In any case, as long as companies trust the results and the effectivity of these tests, I guess there's no stopping the medicals: the drug test, the urine test, the chest x-ray, the stool test, the dental, the optical etc...

Ewww...
 

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